![]() ![]() I didn’t want to when I was first learning all these leading edge NLP and Time Line and Hypnosis rapid transformation tools.īut literally just after I learned NLP my 2nd marriage imploded so dramatically and painfully that I am convinced today that without the tools I would not have made it through that excruciatingly painful time.Īnd ultimately I began the journey of self mastery because I was freaking MISERABLE and most of my MISERY was caused by my being DESTROYED by breakups… And sometimes it’s a lot easier to be the one broken up with than it is to have the courage to say, “hey this isn’t really working and I don’t see that it will ever work so I’m breaking up with you for the sake of both of us.” Because you will actually have to deal with some of YOUR stuff. It will not necessarily be what you might think of as EASY. It’s also a hell of a lot easier than jumping back into ANOTHER dysfunctional relationship and repeating the cycle of misery. AND WAY, WAY easier than just letting time heal your wounds. But I’m also sworn to honesty as “America’s Honest Hypnotist” and so I can definitely assure you that what I suggest is WAY easier than the angst and agony you are twisting in right now. We all want “easy” and believe me I LOVE easy. Beware of faulty questions loops.I get asked this a lot. The quality fo your questions defines the quality of your feelings. Now don’t see these as ways to distract yourself, is more like ways to improve and become a better version of yourself, because you’re actively using your time as you choose to. They could be things like salsa dancing going to the gym learning a new skill. So it’s time to take charge, spend some time doing things that you wouldn’t normally do, or didn’t used to have the time to do. This sudden change in circumstance and situation means that your life does change, but if the breakdown was not your choice, then it can feel like your life is falling apart around you. The phone doesn’t ring when it used to, the texts don’t ping at lunchtime and life changes cried dramatically. We are creatures of habit, this is one of the problems where the relationship breaks down because a part of our habits and our routine suddenly disappears. So spend some time to find the true, real you. But in most cases, people hold back in certain ways and don’t find their true self when they’re in a relationship. You may be fortunate enough that the true you is the one you see every morning in the mirror now. when you not bound by these restrictions you can really begin to find the true you. Relationships are all about finding a happy medium, and doing what’s right for you, your partner and overall the relationship. Now there must be a benefit in being on your own and finding yourself once more! What I’m suggesting here is that there is time to rediscover yourself, and find the you that you really are. ![]() Relationships mean that two people come together in some way. Expect this, but don’t beat yourself up about it an important fact to understand about this grieving process for an ex is that as each day passes, those feelings will begin to subside and you will begin to feel better. People work through emotions in various different ways, but one thing is sure in the early days the feelings are most present will be sadness and upset. all of these are not helpful in any way, but they will present themselves in the early days the time and space really are your friend. Give yourself some breathing space, your brain will be going over thinking about things like the frustration, the anger to hurt or the pain. ![]() You really need to bear in mind that this will take some time to recover. When you think about all of the emotions that come up after a relationship breakdown. ![]()
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